A Summer Reset: A Pause That Reminds Me Why
...Staying Steady for the Work Ahead
I know it’s been a while since I’ve blogged. I’ll admit I’m not the best at keeping up with social media — including my blog — and I don’t mind being reminded to keep up with it, so thank you to the friends that nudge me forward!
I took a little time in July to breathe, enjoy some warm summer air, and reset.
Through the last seven months of 2026, we’ve worked through several estates and circumstances that were like no other in more ways than we can explain — and that’s what’s so fascinating about what I do. No situation is ever the same, sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse.
Many times, situations are not ideal for those we’re helping, but we’re always working toward the best solution for our client — and I say it most often: it’s about closure.
Whether it’s having to downsize into a senior community or the tragic and untimely death of a loved one, having someone in your corner who’s advocating for what you need, want, or what’s in your best interests is invaluable.
Taking time away in July reminded me of how proud I am of the work we do advocating for people and families in whatever they’re facing, but it also reminded me of how hard it can be to be an advocate.
We take on a lot, and that’s why it’s a good reminder that when the world gets heavy, it’s okay to take time for yourself — breathe and ground yourself in who you are. Because if you’re not grounded, how can you help ground others?
Smell the flowers, enjoy those moments where you can feel the wind blow, pet and cuddle your animals — be you so you can be the best you for those around you.
It’s not about being broken, overwhelmed, or exhausted — it’s about not getting to the point where you are broken and exhausted. So it’s okay to take a break before you break, the reflection you face in those moments helps to remind you of who you are and where you want to be.
My team and I do, so we can be the best versions of ourselves as we help those around us. If you feel like you need time — whatever that looks like for you — remember, you deserve it.
This is not the last time I’m taking this year, but I’ll admit, I’m really looking forward to everything coming up. We’ve got several estate sales scheduled heading through the season and into autumn. It’s nice feeling refreshed and ready for whatever’s next.
Keep following and check back soon for more from me —
your ABQ Skeleton Key estate sale guy,
Ky.
